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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Eye depth


In face reading, eye depth refers to how deep the eyes are set in the face. Some people have deep set eyes that are buried between their face bones while others have bulging eyes. By just taking a look at the person’s side view, you can easily recognize whether his eyes are deeply set or bulging.

Deep set Eyes

Those with deep set eyes are observers by nature. They like to observe whatever is happening and build conclusions about it. You may be talking to one of them, all the time thinking that he's listening to you when he's actually analyzing your every word and testing its validity.

Bulging eyes

Those with bulging eyes are not as calm as those with deep set eyes. They may be very energetic and like taking part in everything they hear about. Ignore them and they will hate you and probably be very offended and hurt.

Neither bulging nor deeply set

Those with eyes that are neither bulging nor deeply set have a balanced approach when it comes to hearing about something new. They possess qualities that are intermediate between those with bulging eyes and those having deeply set ones.

Face Reading (personology) and Ear Shape:


  • Big ears in face reading: If you have went far enough in face reading then you won't have any problem guessing that a good listener is more likely to have bigger ears than one who hates to listen. If your friend has big ears then most likely he is a good listener. You can get along with that person perfectly if you have big lips (which shows that you talkative).
  • small ears, in face reading: On the other hand a person with small ears may be become overwhelmed if you talked a lot. If for example you were his manager and you had to give him instructions then make sure it's as brief as possible else he may get bored. Note that you can use body language to know if the person you are talking to is interested or not.
  • Ears sticking out: Some people have ears sticking out. According to face readings those people are non conformists who don't like to stick to rules or regulations. This doesn't mean that they are bad people because a person's personality is also affected by his values and beliefs. If their beliefs motivate them to confirm to certain rules (for example religion) then they will certainly do it
  • Ears that not sticking out If the ears are not sticking out at all then this person is a conformist who have no problems sticking to rules or regulations at all.

How to get accurate face reading

Face reading is not a simple science. You can't just judge a person based on one facial feature because the human personality is too complex.
Instead you need to learn how to look for more than one feature together in order to be able to know more about a person. For example if someone has small ears i can assume that he hates to listen but if that person had small ears and in the same time had big lips then certainly i can guess that he only loves to talk and hates to listen.

Ear Position

What is meant by the ear position in face reading is the position of ears in respect to the head. Some people have most of their heads in front of their ears while others have their heads behind their ears (when observed from the side view).
The person who has most of his head in front of his ears is said to have "forward balance" while the person who has most of his head behind his ears is said to have "backward balance".
In this article i will tell you about the relevance of ear position in face reading.

The relevance of ear position in face reading

  • Forward balance: People with forward balance enjoy being in the center of attention. They their voices may be loud and they care a lot about being noticed. Ignoring a person with forward balance is like killing him.
If you want to get along with that person then make him feel that he is getting your attention. People with forward balance tend to think more of the future than they think about the past. They may not regret what they did in the past (like people with backward balance) but rather focus on how to change what is to come.
  • Backward balance: On the contrary people with backward balance prefer to be in the rear lines. They rarely seek attention and avoid being in the spotlight. A person with backward balance thinks a lot about the past and may remember bad things that happened to him a long time ago unlike people with forward balance who just care about what's coming. Note that attention seeking behaviour is not always related to lack of self confidence, both persons can learn to be confident with disregard to their forward or backward balance
  • Those who fall in between: Some people neither have a forward balance nor a backward balance but their ears seem to be positioned in the middle of their heads. Those people have a balanced approach towards thinking about the past and towards attention seeking.

Face reading, ear position and personality

As a psychologist i believe that personality traits such as attention seeking behaviour results from childhood experiences.
So if that's the case then how can a person's face determine his personality or a trait such as attention seeking?
In fact, one interesting theory states that our facial features keep changing as our personalities change and that our final face shape determines who we currently are.

Face Reading (personology), Ear Height


What is meant here by ear height in face reading is the relative level of the ears to the eyes and nose.
Some people seem to have their ears positioned higher in their face in comparison to their friends. You can use the nose tip as a base line and see where the bottom of the ear lies in comparison to it. If the bottom of the ear is high compared to the nose tip then this person has high set ears and vise versa.

Ear Height Relevance in face Reading

  • High set ears: People with relatively higher ears usually receive information faster than others. I am not referring to intelligence here but rather to the rate with which they can adsorb new information.
This person works well under pressure especially if he has a small eye to eyebrow distance. Note that when i talked about the eye to eyebrows distance i was referring to the speed of information processing and not the speed of receiving information.
If you have high ears and a big eye to eyebrow distance then most probably you receive information quickly, but you will be suffering from a low information processing rate and may thus become frustrated.
On the other hand if you have high ears and a small eye to eyebrows distance then you will be able to both receive and process information very quickly and you will be able to make very good decisions under pressure.
This type of person is also highly practical and focused. He almost never buys anything that he does not truly need. During his work, he focuses on getting the job done rather than focusing on how to do it.
  • Low set ears: A person with low set ears has a lower rate of receiving information. Give him very fast instructions and he will be totally lost. Make sure you always give him instructions slowly and use diagrams whenever applicable when dealing with him.
If that person has a big eye to eyebrows distance too then he will be slow in receiving and processing information and so you may find him the last one to finish work or to hand the exam paper.
People with low set ears may be very idealistic, they focus on how the job is done in addition to focusing on getting it done.

Face Reading (personology) and Chin


  • Pointed chin: A person with a pointed chin is a stubborn person just like the one with long front teeth. Having both features together means that the person is very stubborn. This person has fierce inner resistance that can be triggered when someone pushes against him.
When dealing with such a person, you must depend on your flexibility because pushing against him will yield no result.
  • Square chin: A square-chinned person is called the challenger. That person always challenges problems by standing up whenever he falls. He never gives up until he reaches what he wants. He is usually very competitive and considers everything, even sports, as a challenge rather than looking at the fun part of it. This person has the ability of pointing out the pros and cons of any issue and this makes him a very good consultant and a debate lover. To get along with him avoid igniting his fighting spirit and take his opinions into consideration.
  • The small chin: Having a small chin is usually associated with having a pointed chin. In face reading, whenever the facial features are relatively smaller to those of normal people then the person is considered a sensitive person. People with small chins and small facial features are very sensitive to criticism and overwhelming life events. Criticize those people and they will hate you, shout at them and they may not approach you again. In order to get along with a sensitive person try to be more nurturing than usual.
  • Round chin: A person with a round chin is a friendly person, he is neither aggressive nor harsh. Remember the impression you got when you first saw Martin Lawrence in the movie big mama's house? He seemed very friendly because of all round facial features he had. This person loves social gatherings and usually provides a very nice company. If you enter a new place, for example, a shopping mall and wanted to ask for help then the best one would be someone with round facial features. If that person also has big lips (talkative) then he will be a perfect choice if you were looking for directions or information.
  • Protruding chin: What is meant by a protruding chin is that the chin seems to be protruding when viewed from the side view rather than being perfectly vertical (just like a witch's chin in cartoons!!). This person cannot let go of things easily and holds on to them as much as he can. This person rarely quits anything midway and that applies to relations too.
  • Receding chin: People with receding chins are exactly the opposite of those who have protruding ones. People with receding chins are the type of people who have got lots of semi finished projects because they find it hard to commit to anything to the end unless they really need it.
  • Neither receding nor protruding chin: People with chins that are neither protruding nor receding have a balanced approach towards commitment.Those people don't quit midway but they also know when to give up.

Face Reading (personology): Cheek Bones


Have you ever noticed how Brad Pitt's or Mill Gibson's cheek bones protrude? People with protruding cheek bones usually give the impression that they are adventures and brave.

Just as you might have already gussed Protruding cheek bones, in face reading, represents courage and adventure loving.
A person with protruding cheek bones never escapes a fight; he is full of courage and has no problem in taking risks or trying something new. He is not bound by a certain comfort zone or definite habits but he just follows his instincts and accepts new challenges. This person also loves to travel and explore new places.

Face reading important notes

Try to notice the kind of celebrities they choose to act in war films and you will discover that most probably they pick someone with protruding cheek bones to be the hero.
Of course this doesn't mean that a person who doesn't have protruding check bones can't be brave. As i said before, the presence of the facial feature asserts the presence of the personality traits but the absence of the facial feature doesn't indicate the absence of the personality trait.
Some people might have check bones that are covered by the fats on their faces. You should take such a point into consideration before making any judgment.

Face reading and personality

I strongly believe that anyone can change his personality and become a better person. Don't think that your face features can restrict you (for example by thinking that having no protruding cheek bones means that you can't be brave).
While face reading can tell people's personalities with a high accuracy still this doesn't contradict with the fact that you can change and become a much better person.

How To Overcome Home Business Owner Burnout!

I have often been asked to help others work through issues of burnout. As a business owner you’ve most likely experienced days (or weeks) when you feel you’ve been running around like a chicken with your head cut off and typically when the tail wags the dog you immerge feeling that you have little or nothing to show for your effort.
Go Back Where It All Started
Whenever I speak with an entrepreneur about potential burnout, I have them take the opportunity to go back and re-examine their original purpose. I have found that the process laid out below always results in ignited productivity, passion and helps preserve their sanity.
The first key is re-igniting your drive which is born from your internal motivation, your “fire in the belly”. We are never more productive than when we perform functions because we want to – not because we have to. One way to motivate your self to achieving this is to remember the original reasons that motivated you to choose the business that you’re in. That is; why you chose to pursue the business opportunity in the first place.
Make a list of all the things you use to love doing; that you were once passionate before you made them into a task and reexamine when and why that all changed.  It’s usually when you began to think that your efforts in those areas didn’t make a difference.  Give yourself credit!  Seriously, I’ve found that we are our harshest critic which is why I deal with this deeper later in this post.
I also tell business owners to make a list of all the things that you have discovered are not up your “expertise” ally and either become educated in those areas or look for opportunities to cheaply outsource those tasks.  In fact, I have a comprehensive list of those services that will do almost any task you need for pennies with the “Success Steps To Building Wealth Online” training because I feel they are so vital to preventing the burnout of struggling online entrepreneurs.
Recognize The Warning Signs
When we first began this entrepreneurial path we took every day and made the most out of it, enjoying the simple feeling of daily accomplishment. We were convinced that this was a defining time in our business life and we were committed to making the most of it however, much like a chandelier on a dimmer switch, the illumination of that original inspiration has slowly faded without us noticing. For many of us, if we do not halt this track, it will translate into full-blown burnout and can eventually be the beginning of a slow death of our business.
Recalibrate What You Focus On

In order to feel accomplishment through the process again, we need to define what the process accomplishes or satisfies in us as an individual. So what’s the question we need to ask ourselves? It’s a variation of the question “what’s in it for me?” However we need to alter the question to get the answer we can use. The actual question we should ask is “what’s in it for me other than money, that fulfills me?” Take a piece of paper and write down as many answers to that question that come to mind in 5 minutes.
As entrepreneurs we’ve made the choices we have made because we were deeply inspired make them. When we force ourselves over a period of time to perform a function through manufactured motivation it is the first step toward eventual burnout. It is a sign that you have lost your original inspiration, which will have a direct adverse-effect on our drive and focus. It extinguishes that “fire in the belly”; the foundational purpose that fuels why you do what you do. Unless we define the main needs in our life that this role can satisfy, we can never justify any extra effort and sentences us to living our business life at the lowest common denominator…. we might as well be an employee and have a regular job! This is the polar opposite of what will sustain long-term high effort as a result of the deep satisfaction.
Rewrite Your Job Description!
So in light of this, how do I relate to the process in a way that reconnects me with enjoying it on a daily basis? I must basically redefine my job description in a way that emphasizes the parts of the process that I most enjoy doing. Note that it does not mean that you won’t need to perform tasks that you least enjoy but rather it allows you to acquire the motivation to do them. What fulfills me daily is to tirelessly work to unlock the potential of others who truly want that for themselves. Everyday I am inspired to coach my team and my clients to individually attain their defined short-term and long term goals while experiencing a sense of accomplishment throughout every step of the process.
Enjoying The Process Again & Rewarding Yourself
Your road map to success is not solely focusing on the end result but rather the daily process, which if executed vigorously, will ultimately give you the results you desire. I cannot say this strongly enough: allowing yourself to take satisfaction in the daily process is paramount. We are all able to feel that sense of accomplishment when we concentrate on the A+B of the success formula on a daily basis and not focus solely on the end result (i.e. monetary results). Notice I said “not solely”. Satisfaction from our end results and goal attainment is important but it also comes far more naturally.
I’m suggesting that one just cannot starve themselves on satisfaction, only to binge like a starving man at an all-you-can-eat buffet when they reach a long term goal. That method causes the individual to appear to others as an ego-maniac when they experience success because of the co-dependant relationship they have developed with it. No one else understands that they are actually eating all they can now because they have no idea when the next time they’ll be allowed to dine on satisfaction again.
Conclusion
If you set daily activity goals, you can feel satisfaction in your job everyday (make certain that you reward your self when you reach those). Remember: The only way to achieve any long-term end result is to focus on being fulfilled through the process on a daily basis, which naturally results in greater effort. There will be no need for a forced increased in daily discipline when you enjoy and are fulfilled through the daily processes you accomplish.
The 5 Keys to avoid burnout and maintaining a healthy daily perspective are:
  • Define what you truly enjoy in your present business role.
  • Seperate those functions that you are passionate about from those you struggle to effectively perform and look for opportunities to delegate or cheaply outsource those functions.
  • Make your goals to reflect daily activities you can control rewarding yourself when you reach them knowing that they will eventually result in growth over the long haul.
  • Don’t negatively evaluate yourself on results you can’t control – it will damage your efforts to control the things you can.
  • It is practically impossible for you to be a successful, inspirational entrepreneur if you believe what you do is only about the bottom line…. so don’t let it be!
So take a business time-out, recalibrate, refocus and re-ignite the excitement about what you do!