“I could talk to you all night long.”
As you will find with many of the compliments listed here,
we’re focusing on the values of a woman — what the female deems
important and flattering. Any man who has ever had even the slightest
contact with the fairer sex knows that
women place a high value on communication.
Hence, after talking to her for a while, you need to drop the
compliment that not only flatters but also excites. These are the types
of compliments women can’t resist. Say it with a distinct tone of
pleased surprise: “Wow, I could talk to you all night long!” Obviously,
this only works if the two of you have already established a
well-paced, comfortable discussion, but it’s perfect if this situation
presents itself. During such a great conversation, you will be expected to provide a compliment, and there’s nothing better than this solid standby.
“I like the way your mind works.”
Many women have come to expect the “Hey, you’re really smart!”
comment, and these tips here are created to set you apart. Therefore,
you need to take the next step that not only proves you listen, but that you’re also impressed with her mind
in general. Now, despite what you may think, this compliment is not
conditional; it’s not reliant on her actual intelligence. Such a
comment as this can follow any remark of hers that represents a slight
twist on the current subject or simply casts the subject in a new
light. Something small, like an ironic observation constructed to make
you smile or laugh, and you’re primed and ready to deliver the
appropriate comment. She likely won’t even expect it as she wasn’t
trying to impress you, and the key to any woman’s heart is an
unexpected gift.
“You look fantastic.”
Most men who don’t fit the “metrosexual” label get up, locate
whatever is clean and put it on. On the flip side, most women spend
plenty of time selecting each piece of an outfit, which is highly
dependent on multiple factors. Therefore, rather than trying the tired
“That’s a beautiful dress,” you can tweak it for the sake of freshness
by generalizing and summing up the entire ensemble: “You look
fantastic.” Make sure you comment on the fact that her earrings are a
good selection and match her top, or perhaps you can notice that her
shoes are the “perfect choice.” These are compliments women
can’t resist because most females put a tremendous amount of emphasis
on their ability to pick out fantastic outfits. It’s not so much about how they look, it’s about her skill in bringing out her most attractive features.
“You’re definitely the hottest of your group.”
Although women tend to travel in groups at nightclubs and bars
for general moral support and protection, don’t think for one solitary
second that they’re not silently competing against one another. Perhaps
they’re not literally clawing each other’s eyes out over one particular
guy, but when you go out of your way to place her above her peers,
she’ll lap it up like a starving kitten at a saucer of fresh milk. Many
men don’t realize that
women compare themselves to their friends far more often than guys do, which means such a compliment elevates the girl’s self-esteem. It’s not so much about her own vision of herself; it’s in how she appears to
others, and when a man says “You’re definitely the hottest of your
group,” she suddenly feels as if she has the physical edge. She won’t
be overlooked when the night is over. She’ll be the one beating the
guys off with a stick.
