Approaching your target is one of most important steps in manipulating
a person! Scientists say that first few seconds of our encounter will
build out future relationship.
First of all you have to know what about will you talk with your target!
Best is to find 5+ topics your target will be interested in. Most important is that 3+ of those should make target laugh, 1.5+ should be interesting and 0.5+ is to extract the information!
Now you wonder how 0.5! Thing is you can't ask a direct question. Imagine you ask a person.
"What is the answer to your secret question" or "What is your e-mail password".
Knowing what his question is ask him a question related to it.
Now about the 3+ topics/jokes. People will accept you if you are funny (not everyone but most). Make them laugh and be the "funny guy".
If a group of people has fun they get lost in the void of their thoughts. If you combine something they need to think about and some fun term they will laugh and think at same time.
When this happen you have to be ready!
Let say secret question is "What was your first dogs name!"
Here is an example of an further conversation after you managed to do what I wrote above:
You: Hey, what is your dogs name?
Now normally he wouldn't say it because wtf?
But at this moment he in in void. He is not thinking and most important he thinks you will tell him a joke or a funny story.
He: Max ( or something)!
You:..............(make something up or if you are lucky find a joke online, before conversation ofc).
They laugh or not still you got the answer so who cares!
Important to remember is to be funny, have few topics to discuss and most important is to be ready to improvise.
This was all important for the conversation! If you run out of topics ask questions that are not related to work or your mission. Just so you can make more topics to talk about.
Now second most important thing are those few seconds before you talk and as your target looks at you while you are coming towards them!
For male:
Female target:
Stand up if sitting. Never stand up and start going towards the target at same time!
Stand up first! Fix your shirt or look at your clock/cell phone. Look up stay straight and look confident. then turn towards and walk up to your target. If you see a friend that is in your way. Say hello and do a handshake. Look at your target every 2-3 seconds. Then leave our friend and go again toward your target. Make sure to laugh when talking to your friend! When you get to your target say Hi and go to begin of this tutorial!
Male targets:
Dominant:
If you want to build a relation ship in who you are dominant and want to manipulate the target. Just do same as for girls only don't make the eye contact!
Sub-dominant:
Look humble. Make sure you do same as above only thing is do a little eye contact and while in conversation talk and make sure you look like you want his approval for everything!
First of all you have to know what about will you talk with your target!
Best is to find 5+ topics your target will be interested in. Most important is that 3+ of those should make target laugh, 1.5+ should be interesting and 0.5+ is to extract the information!
Now you wonder how 0.5! Thing is you can't ask a direct question. Imagine you ask a person.
"What is the answer to your secret question" or "What is your e-mail password".
Knowing what his question is ask him a question related to it.
Now about the 3+ topics/jokes. People will accept you if you are funny (not everyone but most). Make them laugh and be the "funny guy".
If a group of people has fun they get lost in the void of their thoughts. If you combine something they need to think about and some fun term they will laugh and think at same time.
When this happen you have to be ready!
Let say secret question is "What was your first dogs name!"
Here is an example of an further conversation after you managed to do what I wrote above:
You: Hey, what is your dogs name?
Now normally he wouldn't say it because wtf?
But at this moment he in in void. He is not thinking and most important he thinks you will tell him a joke or a funny story.
He: Max ( or something)!
You:..............(make something up or if you are lucky find a joke online, before conversation ofc).
They laugh or not still you got the answer so who cares!
Important to remember is to be funny, have few topics to discuss and most important is to be ready to improvise.
This was all important for the conversation! If you run out of topics ask questions that are not related to work or your mission. Just so you can make more topics to talk about.
Now second most important thing are those few seconds before you talk and as your target looks at you while you are coming towards them!
For male:
Female target:
Stand up if sitting. Never stand up and start going towards the target at same time!
Stand up first! Fix your shirt or look at your clock/cell phone. Look up stay straight and look confident. then turn towards and walk up to your target. If you see a friend that is in your way. Say hello and do a handshake. Look at your target every 2-3 seconds. Then leave our friend and go again toward your target. Make sure to laugh when talking to your friend! When you get to your target say Hi and go to begin of this tutorial!
Male targets:
Dominant:
If you want to build a relation ship in who you are dominant and want to manipulate the target. Just do same as for girls only don't make the eye contact!
Sub-dominant:
Look humble. Make sure you do same as above only thing is do a little eye contact and while in conversation talk and make sure you look like you want his approval for everything!
Credits:
Dr Broken God
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