Well this is more of an read than a tutorial but I am sure you will find it most interesting.
1.Did you know that your short-term memory has a max capacity of seven
Humans have three forms of memory: sensory, long-term and short-term.
Long-term memory is like hard-drive space, while short-term memory is like a very small RAM.
This short-term memory can hold only about five to nine informations at
time. Remembering information longer than this requires you to either
compress it down into seven units or store it in long-term memory.
Did you know that most phone numbers are only seven digits!!
Why did you think its so.
Tip: This can be useful if you are doxing someone.
2.Chartreuse is the most visible color.
Yellow-green, chartreuse, sits right in the middle of the frequencies
of visible light making it easy to spot. In some cities, firetrucks
have been changed from red to a yellow-green color to make them more
visible.
Tip: You wanna put something people will notice or you wanna be noticed?
3.You have an instant playback feature.
Imagine you are in school and have to answer some questions to teacher
to get good grade and in meantime while you concentrated on it someone
said something about you. After you're done you will hear what that
person told you even if you didn't listen. This often manifests as Deja
vu.
Tip: Well I don't know how to use this but I am sure you will find a way
4.Too much feelings of danger can lead to feeling pain.
I find this one most useful and its easy to use. If a person has
Phobias its even better. Even those who are not afraid of anything
imagine your self in a small crate that is about to be buried and you
yell and no one hears you even if there are people around you. Well
that is my friends greatest fear try to find yours or from someone
else. Don't expect to torture that person still the felling he will
have isn't nice.
I tested this on my friend and I made him go somewhere else eve if he insisted on staying at this place.
If you wanna know my friend made me go to this coffee bar I don't like.
I go to this greatest fear thing and he told me. I just said imagine
someone closed the door on bathroom when you go in it here and starts
filling it with sand or something. His face just got white even if that
was a joke. My next move was wanna go take a coffee at "other bar he
hates", he said yes.
Approaching your target is one of most important steps in manipulating
a person! Scientists say that first few seconds of our encounter will
build out future relationship.
First of all you have to know what about will you talk with your target!
Best is to find 5+ topics your target will be interested in. Most
important is that 3+ of those should make target laugh, 1.5+ should be
interesting and 0.5+ is to extract the information!
Now you wonder how 0.5! Thing is you can't ask a direct question. Imagine you ask a person.
"What is the answer to your secret question" or "What is your e-mail password".
Knowing what his question is ask him a question related to it.
Now about the 3+ topics/jokes. People will accept you if you are funny
(not everyone but most). Make them laugh and be the "funny guy".
If a group of people has fun they get lost in the void of their
thoughts. If you combine something they need to think about and some
fun term they will laugh and think at same time.
When this happen you have to be ready!
Let say secret question is "What was your first dogs name!"
Here is an example of an further conversation after you managed to do what I wrote above:
You: Hey, what is your dogs name?
Now normally he wouldn't say it because wtf?
But at this moment he in in void. He is not thinking and most important he thinks you will tell him a joke or a funny story.
He: Max ( or something)!
You:..............(make something up or if you are lucky find a joke online, before conversation ofc).
They laugh or not still you got the answer so who cares!
Important to remember is to be funny, have few topics to discuss and most important is to be ready to improvise.
This was all important for the conversation! If you run out of topics
ask questions that are not related to work or your mission. Just so you
can make more topics to talk about.
Now second most important thing are those few seconds before you talk
and as your target looks at you while you are coming towards them!
For male:
Female target:
Stand up if sitting. Never stand up and start going towards the target at same time!
Stand up first! Fix your shirt or look at your clock/cell phone. Look
up stay straight and look confident. then turn towards and walk up to
your target. If you see a friend that is in your way. Say hello and do
a handshake. Look at your target every 2-3 seconds. Then leave our
friend and go again toward your target. Make sure to laugh when talking
to your friend! When you get to your target say Hi and go to begin of
this tutorial!
Male targets: Dominant:
If you want to build a relation ship in who you are dominant and want
to manipulate the target. Just do same as for girls only don't make the
eye contact!
Sub-dominant:
Look humble. Make sure you do same as above only thing is do a little
eye contact and while in conversation talk and make sure you look like
you want his approval for everything!
How does one's
health and lucid dreaming relate? One's memory and sleep order can
affect their lucidity, certain vitimans can boost your rememberance, staying
healthy
is always best if you're getting started in lucid dreaming. In this thread I'm
going
to explain how Omega 3 and vitamins can enhance your lucidity also I will
include some
mp3 voices for you to relax.
Sleep
Having a stable sleeping pattern is essential for practicing how to lucid
dream,
you must be careful of eating directly before sleep and also careful of what
you
eat before you go to bed, known lucid foods are:
Milk
Cheese
Soy Drink
Chocolate (dark)
A really good way to be getting deeper in your lucid dreams is by taking all
the
vitamins you need from food.. if you don't or have defficiency in any vitamin
then I
suggest take tablets like I do sometime.
Omega 3 (Fish
oil and Flaxeed)
There has been many studies that confirm Omega 3 enhances memory and it's
vividness.
Many studies show that people who take Omega 3 on a period of 6 months make
half as
many mistakes when tested.
Don't you wonder if it applies for your dreams as well?
When your dream content is more vivid and intense,
you are more likely to remember it in the morning, so fish oil also indirectly
improves your
dream recall.
Image:
Vitamin B
100 complex
Everyone dreams, but not everyone remembers their dreams as accurate as
others.
Improving your memory will also help you recall your dreams more often.
Vitamins take part in inducing your lucidity, the most important one is the
Vitamin B6.
I wrote a thread about it in details, the amount you can consume and foods that
contain
B6.
Recall an experience still that causes you sadness and
distress. As you remember it, make sure you are re-experiencing it as if
it were happening right now. See everything through your own eyes, all the
feelings - including the associated emotions - through your own body. Pay
particular attention to any sounds; these might include anything that was
said by you or any other significant participants in the original
scenario. It may also include your own self-talk. Make a mental note of
the degree to which this memory still causes you pain.
2. Now
pretend or imagine you can step back out of the experience so you can see
yourself here, as if on a screen. Push the entire away from you, further
and further, noticing, as it moves into the distance, how the colours
begin to leach away and the detail diminishes. Push it as far away as you
need to notice a distinct difference in the way that you feel about the
events.
This is an example, from my own life. As some of you probably already
know, my ex was a profiler. Now only thing that left from her lying 6 feet
below is that knowledge she transferred to me. And I will always be
greatfull to her. Now let’s start – I
was the guy who had identity crisis and who was humiliated by almost everybody…
till I met her.
Example(these were her words while she was diminishing experience that
made me problems, it will be explained by parts):
Recall an experience:
(Name), remember how you were pushed away from people you wanted to have
friendship with. Remember the situation when you were in the room and they
denied you because you are freak.
Re- experiencing with feelings:
(Name), pictures in your brain are so alive. You feel yourself pushed,
unhappy, bad. Like the last piece of shit. All you wanted was mutual
understanding and friendship. Remember their voices telling you to back off, to
stay away from them. It is hurting you from the inside, you want to do
something, but you can’t. You feel yourself bad, humiliated, denied. This is so
hard for you.
Pretending(this is tricky part, and you must know the person you are
helping, for example my anchors were power and cynnism):
Remember as you are creating protective field around you. It is becoming
bigger and bigger. Colours are so alive, it is all fulfilled with green( green
is my favourite colour). You cannot see them through green colour. They are
getting weaker, you are getting stronger… Protective field growing…
What are you feeling about this now? I said pain.
She asked me around 20 times same
sentences…
I started saying nothing.
Are they away? Yes.
Can they reach you? No.
Are they having any value in your life? No.
Are they worth of your time? No.
Can you fight them? Yes.
Next day, when I went to college, that guy who said that I am a freak,
tried to screw me over, and only thing I felt was that poor human been placed
under me in the evolution radar is trying to screw me over in a manner that is
unappropriate for my knowledge level. I started to use cynnism, and after 5
minutes he gave up. I placed myself as he had no values in my eyes.
This is a great method to make money and I know that lots of people
can miss this one out because they don’t download it either because they are
lazy or because they can’t. So with that being said See this great method
below. STEP 1
If you haven’t yet, sign up to ADFLY “Join Now” STEP 2
If you haven’t yet sign up a YouTube, sign up here: YouTube –
Broadcast Yourself. STEP 3
Go to Lyrics, Song Lyrics – SweetsLyrics.com and MUSIC
AND LYRICS and check out their latest music news. Very often if not daily,
a new song or mix tape is released from some very famous artists. Artists like
Lady Gaga, Eminem, 50 Cents, Chris Brown, Lil Wayne, Katy Perry and Britney Spears.
The more famous the artist the more money you make from this method.
Get as many new song names from these two sites as possible, you could also try
Google’s News search and search broad terms like, “new music” or “new song” –
and pick up brand new song releases that way too. Every little helps.
Now you should have a nice list of recently released hot of the press tracks to
cash in on.
REMEMBER: The key to this method is speed, persistence and consistency. That’s
all. STEP 4
Running through the list of songs you’ve got now, head to YouTube and search to
see if any of them have already been uploaded, quite often the songs would have
been but you will notice that they would have uploaded quite recently giving
you enough time to duplicate their video (download – use KeepVid) and re-upload
the song on your YouTube account. Trust me; you don’t have to be the first to
rank no1 on YouTube search for anything… You just have to be the best. I will
explain further. But first download the videos, and if you’ve got a super fast
PC, remember that time is of the essence, reproduce the video, by adding
instructions right at the beginning and end of the video suggesting to viewers
that there are goodies to be found in the description that they do not want to
miss out on, you can do this in Movie Maker really easily… This trick works
really well and really explodes your earnings. Trust me on this one.
I recommend you reproduce as I just suggested but if you can’t or your PC moves
at a turtle pace then leave off the suggestion, why?, you don’t want to pass up
your opportunity to be in early. Not necessarily first, but early! If God was
to shine favour on you, you might even find you are indeed first to the party
and you get VIP treatment from YouTube. STEP 5
Now your videos are up, you’ll find that they probably don’t show up for a
while. Not to worry, this is common – there is often a gap between a video
being uploaded and it hitting the YouTube search pages. But despite knowing
this, you mustn’t rest on your laurels!
In fact besides being early to the party, this is the most important bit.
If you are going to make a killing with this method, your video has got to rank
high enough on the most popular search term for your song! Let me help you with
that.
The first step to achieving popularity for your video is titling your video
extremely similar if not exactly the same as the most popular search term, and
by title I mean the actual title of your YouTube video! Not some title you add
to your movie file when publishing it in Movie Maker. Ok, so let’s say you
uploaded a Lil Wayne track titled – “That’s what they call me”. Fittingly you
should title your video – “Lil Wayne – That’s what they call me [2011 NEW
SONG]” or something along those lines! The most popular search term is included
– “Lil wayne that’s what they call me”, and the “[2011 NEW SONG]” bit makes
your video stand out from the others that might employ your strategy too. What
you fit into those braces could spell dessert or disaster so choose
appropriately.
Oh yeah, and pop a few relevant tags in there… don’t think they hold much
weight though as I see videos rank top even without any tags but you never see
that happen without an appropriate title. So pick your priorities right. STEP 6
The next step to making sure your video spearheads straight to the top of
YouTube search, or close enough to bank hard on ADFLY, is actually really
simple.
Using the tricks I am teaching on YouTube I have had videos hit anywhere from
60,000 views to over 2,000,000 views! And you can imagine, my take home was
something special!
All you’ve got to do is ‘Like’ your video a few times… and you’re done.
Just kidding, liking wouldn’t hurt, but I seriously doubt it would affect
rankings too much, seeing as it can be gamed almost too easily. What you really
need to do is get traffic to your video.
Post a link to your video on music forums like Digital Spy and Buzz Jack
Now I know what you’re thinking… “The whole point of half of these steps was to
get traffic through YouTube, but now I have to get traffic to YouTube first?” I
know it sounds absurd but it’s true and it makes plenty of sense. YouTube ranks
your video based on its popularity and relevance and that is really all that
you must focus on. You’ve got the relevance, now you need the popularity. Now
let me further explain how YouTube reads this. If a video is uploaded and in
its first few minutes it gets a consistent stream of views, it doesn’t have to
be an avalanche, it is considered popular and indeed very healthy. And that is
what we are looking for. In fact getting an avalanche that cannot be sustained
beyond a few minutes or hours will hinder your chances against other videos
that have had a consistent growth at a steady natural rate.
Somehow I know that made a lot of sense. So now for the final part, don’t worry
I didn’t STEP 7
So now YouTube has officially been dominated and the views start rolling in.
How do we go about making a bucket load on adfly?
But first remember when I said you should reproduce the video in software like
Movie Maker, or another one of your choice for that matter. That would have
been a good move. Just sayin’
But if you didn’t you could always add annotations to your videos, using
YouTube’s built in annotations engine and you could get the job done that way,
your choice, it’s more time efficient and editable because you don’t have to do
it before the video is uploaded, taking up a few valuable minutes and you can
always edit it later. However I do like doing it on video as that often makes
people trust it more as it almost acts as a verification that it’s your video
and not someone else’s and if done neatly enough it can push viewers to
thinking it was part of the song. Imagine what that can do to your earnings. Now back to Step 7.
You want the link to target something directly related to your artist. I
suggest you pick something everyone who comes across the video would want to
see for themselves. It could be a shocking news story, here’s one off the top
of my head, in the case of Chris Brown, he always seems to accompany song
releases with controversial moments that are captured by video and that pays
dividends. Link to the news article! Maybe link to a YouTube related to the
news article.
You could just search YouTube for a video attractive a lot of attention that relates
to your artist and link to that. Of course all links will be masked with adfly.
Now be careful about this. Link relevant and don’t try to defraud adfly because
they have a deadly way of finding stuff out. Luckily I didn’t learn that from
personal experience. NOTE: When linking, try not to use the default
adfly URL, be different and less recognizable, use one of their other redirect
options like u.bb or 9.bb – VERY IMPORTANT
That is the beauty of Adfly. You can actually make money ethically! Take advantage
of it
This article is about a cognitive bias
that occurs in decision making. For an NLP technique whereby a personal state
is associated with a unique stimulus, see Anchoring
(NLP).
Anchoring or focalism is a cognitive
bias that describes the common human tendency to rely too heavily, or
"anchor," on one trait or piece of information when making decisions.
Background
During normal decision-making, anchoring occurs when individuals overly rely
on a specific piece of information to govern their thought-process. Once the
anchor is set, there is a bias toward adjusting or interpreting other
information to reflect the "anchored" information. Through this
cognitive bias, the first information learned about a subject (or, more
generally, information learned at an early age) can affect future
decision-making and information analysis.
Example: As a person looks to buy a used car, he or she may focus
excessively on the odometer reading and model year of the car, and use those
criteria as a basis for evaluating the value of the car, rather than
considering how well the engine or the transmission is maintained.
Example 2: A man is looking for a girlfriend; he may focus intensively on
her big boobs than any other criteria like intelligence, money, power, love; he
will rather focus to pick up the boobed girl than the girl who has a lot of
money.
Focusing effect
The focusing effect (or focusing illusion) is a cognitive bias that occurs when people
place too much importance on one aspect of an event, causing an error in accurately
predicting the utility
of a future outcome.
People focus on notable differences, excluding those that are less
conspicuous, when making predictions about happiness or convenience. For
example, when people were asked how much happier they believe Californians are
compared to Midwesterners, Californians and Midwesterners both said
Californians must be considerably happier, when, in fact, there was no
difference between the actual happiness rating of Californians and
Midwesterners. The bias lies in that most people asked focused on and
overweighed the sunny weather and ostensibly easy-going lifestyle of California
and devalued and underrated other aspects of life and determinants of
happiness, such as low crime rates and safety from natural disasters like
earthquakes (both of which large parts of California lack).
A rise in income has only a small and transient effect on happiness and
well-being, but people consistently overestimate this effect. Kahneman
et al. proposed that this is a result of a focusing illusion, with people
focusing on conventional measures of achievement rather than on everyday
routine.
Since I work with football players, I will give one more example. When I
asked my friends what they think about football players, they generally think
that football players are very happy and rich people, who has everything in
their lives, but the truth is not always a fairy tale. Some of my football
players are very unhappy people, also having relationship and life problems
like any other human been.
Anchoring and adjustment heuristic
Anchoring and adjustment is a psychological heuristic
that influences the way people intuitively assess probabilities. According to
this heuristic, people start with an implicitly suggested reference point (the
"anchor") and make adjustments to it to reach their estimate. A
person begins with a first approximation (anchor) and then makes incremental
adjustments based on additional information.
The anchoring and adjustment heuristic was first theorized by Amos
Tversky and Daniel Kahneman. In one of their first studies, the
two showed that when asked to guess the percentage of African nations that are
members of the United Nations, people who were first asked "Was it more or
less than 10%?" guessed lower values (25% on average) than those who had
been asked if it was more or less than 65% (45% on average). The pattern has
held in other experiments for a wide variety of different subjects of
estimation.
As a second example, an audience is first asked to write the last two digits
of their social security number and consider whether they would pay this number
of dollars for items whose value they did not know, such as wine, chocolate and
computer equipment. They were then asked to bid for these items, with the
result that the audience members with higher two-digit numbers would submit bids
that were between 60 percent and 120 percent higher than those with the lower
social security numbers, which had become their anchor.
Sociology is the study of society. It's good to know about society and human
behaviors when you're being a social engineer. What I'm going to teach you is
something that you already knew (probably) but never realized. I'm going to
break it up into three sections and let you use the information in each section
to guide you through your social engineering practices.
Understanding The Way We Speak
I am no expert in this field but I seem to understand the things that most people
don't really see until I present it to them with bold letters. A few days ago I
did an experiment with my friend. I went on Omegle and I started talking and I
told my friend that I could guess what their response would be to my various
exclamations, announcements, and questions. So I did the easiest one first. I
used music as my first example. This is how the chat went, I'm going to put my
guess in parenthesis before what the person actually said.
You : hey (hey, hi, or something like that) Stranger : hey You : whats up? (nothing, not much you?) Stranger : talking to you lol, what are you doing? You : listening to music (what music do you like?) Stranger : what music do you like? You : oh I like pretty much all music... you? (I really don't know what he's going say here, probably rock, or he might
even say same here) Stranger : same here (Haha, I'm good!) You : oh thats cool
So you're probably thinking, "Okay well I could have done that" and
thats the point I want to get across. It's really easy to guess what the person
is going to say next based on the situation, tone, and setting that you're in.
So lets go a step further into this. How can you use this to your advantage.
Well, knowing what the person is probably going to say can give you an advantage
by letting you have an upper-hand because you can decide what you're going to
ask ahead of time, so you are "the master of the conversation"
because you created the conversation in your head.
Okay so lets move on to thought implantation. This one is easy depending on the
person and can be done with very minimal effort. Lets say I want someone to ask
about my new shoes that I just bought (this is the easiest one I could think
of). So in order to get them to ask about the new shoes I have on I have to plant
the thought in their head. Well I could just be bold about it and be like
"Oh I love your shoes!" knowing that in turn they would look at your
shoes. But lets say that you have to be sneaky... you can't let them know that
you want them to look at your shoes. Well what do you do then? You can use
these for just about any subject. This is how you get them to start thinking
about the subject you want them to think about
1. Talk about something related ("Oh look at those shoes that guy has
on!")
2. Discretely mention the subject ("Crap my shoe almost fell off")
3. Say something non-related, but use the related subject in the sentence
("That sign looks like a shoe")
Now obviously all three of those aren't going to work. But, depending on the
subject, it should definitely get your person thinking about the subject you
want them to think about. It's hard to understand at first but you should get
the hang of it
Figure out the person's lifestyle by simply looking at
them
This one is a tricky one but if you're good at it, you'll be right almost 90%
of the time. You've probably done this before in your lifetime but you were
probably wrong when you did it. This will hopefully teach you how to be right.
In order to figure out a person's lifestyle you can look at their face,
clothes, and even hair and figure out a few key things, some of which are...
1. Age
2. Income
3. Profession (This and #2 go together)
4. Sexual Preference
5. Living Area
6. Background
Now, #6 and #5 are usually a stretch for me, and I'm usually right about 70% of
the time which is still good of course but not good enough. So lets start off
with the top of the person and go to the bottom of the person
Hair
You can tell a lot about a person based on their hair. Now of course you can't
base your entire guess on the person's hairstyle, but it should be a
contributing factor
Shaggy/Messy Hair - can mean a few things such as pot-head, hippy, skater,
someone who doesn't care about life, no drive to succeed.
Straight Long Hair (Female) - someone who cares about their appearance, has
time to do things (such as straighten their hair), strives to succeed
Flowing Hair (Female) - someone who cares about their appearance, someone who
tries to look pretty or is pretty
Bald - really depends on age, and could mean tough guy, redneck, or even Aryan
circle member (lol)
Buzz Cut - could be a jock type person, redneck, tough guy, military soldier
etc.
Face
The face is the hardest one to make a tutorial about because there's so many
factors about the face that are hard to explain in just a tutorial but I'll try
to go for the most broadest attempt possible and you guys can fill in the rest
Wrinkles - old, stressed out, late nights
Acne - young, stressed out, doesn't take care of appearance
Bags - late nights, stressed out, doesn't care about appearance
Make-up - cares about appearance, wants to hide flaws
Theres a lot more things I can put here but you can basically add things to
your list because its ever-changing because everyone is different
Shirt
This is the easiest one. I don't have a list because theres millions of shirts
but you can usually tell a lot about a person by their shirt. One thing is you
can tell if the person is someone who conforms to society, also someone who is
rich or poor, also you can tell their occupation by their shirt. Just do some
examining on people and you can figure out who wears what and why they wear it.
Pants
I don't think I've ever been able to judge a person about their pants... Except
for their sexual preference, because usually if I see a guy in tight pink
shorts or Daisy Dukes its a flag for me that that guy is a homosexual. However
you can usually tell if a girl is a "slut" or not by their pants (ie.
mini-skirt, apple-bottom jeans lol, and really really short shorts)
Shoes
I can tell a lot about a person by their shoes. I also have another list! YAY!
Loafers - shoes like Sperry's will usually indicate that the person is someone
who conforms, or wants to wear semi-formal formal shoes lol
Boots - cowboy boots indicate someone who is either hard working, or a redneck,
and regular boots indicate someone who is adventurous, tough, or also
hard-working.
High Heels - depending on the situation it could indicate a log about a girl,
but really I can't think of anything other than worries about appearance
Running Shoes - someone who either just got done running, is always active, or
even someone who doesn't care about appearance (this would be depending on the
wear of the shoes)
Putting it all together
This section is about how to use the information I gave you to manipulate the
person. So lets say you want someone to tell you where they live (for whatever
reason). Well by using the information I gave you, you can quickly come up with
a conversation in your head for the person in question. So lets say we see
someone with the newest clothes, a nice haircut, a nice watch, and a nice pair
of sunglasses and not a single flaw on their face and they look really smug.
Heres what I would get out of looking at him
- Either rich, or in tons of debt
- Likes material objects
- Cares about what people think about him
- Probably lives on the rich side of town
- Will probably tell you where he lives because he wants to brag about it
So with that information we know that he's out #1 target for this example! YAY!
I love it when my example people are perfect for the situations that I put them
in. Okay so heres the conversation that I'm thinking
Code:
Me : Hey man, nice
clothes... How you getting good money in THIS economy Him : Blah blah blah how I make money blah blah blah (the reason I do
that is because I have no idea what he's going to say) Me : Oh sweet dude. So I'm guessing you got a nice house huh? Him : Yeah its pretty nice Me : So you probably live in Horseleg right? Him : Yeah I do Me : oh cool my friend lives near there, what section? Him : blah blah blah
So thats my rough layout of what I think he's going to say. This is what he
actually says once I start talking to him
Me : Hey Man, nice
clothes... How do you get so much money in this economy? Him : Haha, well I own my own dot com site. Man I'm making at least 10
thou a week now Me : Wow! 10k a week? you're doing pretty good haha (I try to feed his ego so he feels like he is superior so that I'm not a
threat) Him : yeah, its pretty amazing, I got that new camaro just last week Me : Thats my favorite car dude... So I'm guessing you live in Horseleg? Him : Naah, I live in cedar woods Me : Ohh, I have a friend that lives there what part do you live in Him : You know where the swimming pool is? Me : yeah (even though I have no clue where this place is) Him : yeah I live near there Me : thats where my friend lives, what address are you? Him : 10 Maplewood Dr. Me : wow you live pretty close to him actually. this is a small world I
guess Him : haha yeah I guess so Me : well hey I gotta get going nice talking to you, good luck with your
dot com site Him : haha thanks, see ya
So as you can see, I
(theoretically) convinced this person (even though he's fake) into giving me
his address... Now obviously its not that easy but its a good example and
hopefully it will show you how this all works out.
Closing Points
Each human is different, so therefore the common steriotypes that are given
aren't always going to be true (I break a few of them myself) so I find its
best to talk to the person or just listen to how they talk to other people and
you can usually tell the relationship that the person has with the other person
and you can tell how they might act when you speak to them. I will suggest making
your own list of steriotypes that you found are true about people and make your
best guess but be prepared to be wrong.